Even when the tittle is Cinta Harus Memiliki, to me it'll always be Cinta Tidak Harus Memiliki
Its hard to search for someone who will appreciate you more, care for you more and understand you more than yourself...
To me KESERASIAN itu boleh dicipta..asalkan kita berusaha memahami kehendak pasangan dan mahu membuat PERUBAHAN bersama. Its hard to make changes but the outcomes will be heaven.
"If you don't love yourself, you can't love anybody else. And I think as women we really forget that. All we want is to be happy, to feel secure, to feel understood," she explains. "But you can't look for somebody else to do that for you. You think about it. . . . Oh, yeah, of course I care about myself. Of course I have good self-esteem. But when you really take a good look, you are not treating yourself like someone who does. And when you let people treat you in a way that you don't want to be treated, it's not their fault. It's yours." (J.Lo)